How To Make Anal Sex Enjoyable For Her

Men love trying out anal sex with their girls, but they are usually scared whether their suggestion would be scorned by their women. This is a perfectly understandable situation, because women are not that much into anal sex as men are. Some women would refuse outright, and a few of them would be even outraged at the suggestion. This is where you need some expert tips.

You can have anal sex with your woman if you are able to convince her with the right approach. You must be patient with it; if you hurry, you will be spoiling the whole scene. It is better if you can talk with the woman in advance whether she would be game for a bit of butt play, but you should be frank about it. Using allegories and metaphors would only spoil the situation further.

Asking with words

The manner of asking is very important when anal sex is concerned. Any wrong suggestions could make the woman angry with you. The right time to ask is just after the foreplay. Get the woman aroused with the foreplay, and when she is titillated enough, ask her whether she would want to do it. Ask just at the moment when she expects you to penetrate her vagina. Simply ask her, “How do you feel about anal sex this once?’’

There are many reactions that may occur. The woman could get frightened. If she is really scared about anal sex, then she might also think that you are going to force her into it, as there will be no real way of stopping you when you are already at the vagina. The anal opening is very close to the vaginal opening.

Sometimes, men ask the wrong thing and spoil their chances of getting anal sex with the woman forever. One example is, “Have you ever tried anal sex?” Think about it. No woman is going to give a straightforward answer to that. If she said yes, then you might take her to be a slut; but if she says no, she might not get what she wants. So, you have to ask direct questions which would not embarrass the woman.

If a woman has had a bad experience with anal sex before, then she will definitely hate it. But then, women are unpredictable. There could be a very strong chance that the woman tried anal sex with someone else before and loved it, but she does not like the idea of having it with you. So it is important that you play your cards well.

Do not ask questions where both yes and no would embarrass the woman. Get the woman relaxed with foreplay and then pop the right question at the right time.

Asking with fingers

Men are not conversationalists generally, and not at all when they are having sex. If that is the case with you, then you must give the words a break. Use your fingers to do the trick. Touch different parts of the woman’s anus with your fingers. Try to see what kind of sexual feelings she gets. You will be able to understand from her reactions. If you prolong your foreplay and keep fingering her anus in different spots, you will understand if she wants more or not. You can stroke her buttocks, run your fingers through her crack, and see how she reacts.

You can look for some signs. Put your finger into her anus. If she contacts her buttocks, then it certainly means that she is apprehensive. You must try another approach of convincing her. But if she lets it loose and lets your finger play as much as you want, then that means she is ready. Another indication is if her turns on her belly willingly when you are touching her anus. If she does, then you can certainly go ahead.

Breaking the ice

There is a great chance that your woman might be an anal virgin. If she is, then you will need to be more careful about breaking her anal virginity. If she is apprehensive, tell her that she was nervous before her first vaginal sexual encounter too, but it did turn out to be fine at the end. Tell her to try out anal sex once, and see how it goes from then on.

When you are breaking a woman’s anal virginity, the best approach is to use the finger for penetration first. Make your finger lubricated and pass it into the anus, working it slowly deeper and deeper. Doing this will not cause her any pain, and she will actually begin to enjoy the sensation.

All women do not enjoy anal sex in the same way, and they may not prefer it over vaginal intercourse either. Remember one chief point – the woman’s anus is not designed to enjoy movement, but it is designed to enjoy fullness. So there is no use moving your finger around much. But if you keep your finger in for a long time, it will be much more exciting to her.

When you have kept your finger long enough, begin to slowly turn it this way and that, so that she gets unspeakable sensations. At the same time arouse her with a sex toy in her vagina and by fondling her breasts. When you are sure she is enjoying all this, you can take your thing in there and enjoy the joyride.

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